TheBare/Dare Series, 2025! #1

About to unwrap his partner!

An Examination of Our Community and Our Culture of Same Gender Loving Nakedness!

As bare practitioners, we are same gender loving (SGL). Essentially, we are bisexual or we are gay. We also include persons who are transgender. We are all advocates and enthusiasts of our nakedness!

Prologue:

Before we begin an examination or attempt to explore, it is usually a known method to establish a clear and concise understanding of the subject matter (terminology, vocabulary). This is the routine we’ll undertake here. Our goal is for comprehensive and effective communication.

Naturist, naked, nude, nudity and nudism are all words referencing the absence of clothing or garments to conceal, cover, disguise, or hide a person’s body. Unfortunately, for many, the usage of these words delivers a negative (bad, derogatory) connotation (image, message). It may not be intentional, yet the subtle implication is present.

In an effort to avoid judgmental errors, I prefer bare practitioner instead of bisexual nudist or gay nudist. Nakedness is the state of being without any concealment or covering one’s body, hence clothes free. Of course,

Background:

One serious project as the author of ReNude Pride: Guys Without Boxers! is to constantly identify new issues/topics to address concerning the same-gender loving and/or nakedness community and culture. This also includes the revisiting of previously presented ideas/topics and encouraging or offering a new perspective (point of view). It is indeed easier and simpler to calmly repeat over and over subjects already covered in previous post entries here. However, that quickly becomes boring and repetitious for everyone.

In trying to keep informative, interesting and thoughtful, creative and new ideas need to be explored. This search presents experiences and opportunities to broaden our horizon, help us to grow as members of the GLBTQ+ community and culture and as proponents of the nakedness community and culture. Variety is the “spice of life!”

Acknowledgement: This background section was originally published here when this series was first announced several weeks ago. It is posted again in case anyone needs a reminder of the purpose of this series.

“Coming out” bare!

Bare/Dare Series:

The results of my most recent search for different and resourceful postings to offer here is the title of this particular post entry here today: Bare/Dare Series. The purpose of the series is to examine our nudity and how it is influenced by our attitudes, life experiences and social factors. We’ll explore how we personally determine our limitations (if any) on our being bare and how that decision impacts our lives. Then we will focus on different ways our lives are subject to our individual life history.

We all know that there are absolutely no determined procedures or protocols as to how one goes about entering the nakedness community and culture. For many, the simple removing of one’s clothing is the sole necessary action. For others, the process is somewhat more complex and involved. Hopefully, this new series here on ReNude Pride: Guys Without Boxers! will introduce us to different reasons that people have for pursuing living clothes free!

A modest selfie image!

It is important to note here that the majority of people evolve (change, progress) throughout their lives. Few, if any of us, remain the same on a permanent basis. This holds true for a person’s “level of comfort” with their body and clothes freedom. What was viewed as acceptable and reasonable several years ago may be envisioned as juvenile and prudish today. At times, the opposite may be true.

Hopefully, the Bare/Dare Series will offer sundry thoughts on how persons deal with their evolution of nakedness and the social consequences of this life experience. For some new to the bare practitioner lifestyle this situation is chaotic and confusing while for others it is an acceptable and anticipated option. There exists no standard or set reaction/response to baring ourselves while in the company of others. The results may vary as often as the number of persons involved. Everyone has their own ideal of what is appropriate or not.

Genital visibility!

For a significant number of men, the visibility of their male anatomy – genitalia – is a major source of concern. The reasoning for this issue varies from man to man based on a number of experiences and factors that may or may not be readily open for sharing. For some, the topic itself is traumatic and unpleasant. For others, it can be as simple as size and/or style (circumcised or not).

Exiting the pool!

Levels of Comfort:

Throughout our lives, all of us, whether bare or not, have a myriad number of decisions that must be made. What type of job interests me? Where do I dine tonight? What athletic team is my favourite? My next trip abroad, where do I go? An endless list of choices that occupy us for every day that we’re alive.

In our nakedness, decisions continue to confront us. Few are aware of their option while considering clothes freedom. In their minds, all that is involved is removing one’s clothing and then you’re nude! Now, what’s for lunch? I’m famished!

As bare practitioners, one of the basic determinations necessary are our Levels of Comfort regarding our nakedness. What makes me comfortable? What makes me feel uncomfortable? What do I like to do when I’m clothes free? What makes me feel happy? These and other questions need our attention when we’re not wearing garments or when we are wearing garments.

Modest selfie: no genitalia visible!

There are some among us who’d rather to be bare only when they are alone. Interactions with others isn’t needed, their contentment is based strictly on the fact that no one else is involved. In summary: I’m naked so please leave me alone. These persons are sometimes identified as “solo nudes.” Similar to introverts only without wearing clothing! They are at their optimum level of happiness when they are just alone and away from others.

Footnotation: There are no actual or established guidelines or sets of practices that automatically identify a person’s standard or status of nakedness. For many, combinations of levels (variances) often occur frequently and in no regular pattern. Levels of Comfort and Conditions of Visibility vary among individual bare practitioners due to attitudes and/or situations.

Landon (left) and friend comparing their genitalia!

The differences in our life experiences as bare practitioners are often topics of discussion that we share with one another. Many times they induce laughter until followed by tears. Every person has their own story to share and though the tales may be similar, they are also rarely identical. This series here on ReNude Pride: Guys Without Boxers! will conclude with my own personal experience which also involves my identical twin brother, Alex.

Naked hugs!

Roger Poladopoulos/ReNude Pride: Guys Without Boxers!

Author’s Note: The nest post entry here is planned for Monday, August 11, 2025, and the proposed topic is: “Summer Reading, 2025!”

Commando? None For Me!

Commando! = No underwear!

A Guy Without Boxers!

Background:

Today’s post entry here on ReNude Pride serves two important purposes. First and foremost, as a parody (nonjudgmental ridicule) of the commando (no underwear) lifestyle. It is intended for fun rather than factual information.

The second purpose is of a personal experience. Shared with my identical twin brother, Alex, when we began our first year at the Virginia School for the Deaf and Blind (VSDB), a residential school operated by the Commonwealth of Virginia for students who are Deaf from level 4 (primary) through secondary school.

The .gif image introducing the Personal Experience segment here depicts a man ripping (tearing) off his boxer style underwear rather than trimming (cutting) off the waistband. The use of “artistic literary license” here! Naked hugs!

The Chain of Command Demands No Underwear!

Now, in the interests of reality, the “chain of command” demanding a no underwear policy is a very bold new move that offers one essential truth: there will now be quite a number of young men – who modelled underwear – now wandering about completely naked! Their nakedness, being involuntary and sudden, has created a bare, confused and clueless crowd of men parading and running around with their hands covering their genitalia and totally unsure of exactly where they are supposed to go!

Our man (above) give us a clear image of excessive modesty when caught unaware of the chain of command demand! No underwear = exposed penis = mindless alternative = modesty = human suffering. No! Wait! Look at the picture (below) of the twins, the Shoneye pair! Look at the muscle tone of their carefully maintained bodies. The only human suffering depicted here are the overworked hands allowing us a full view of their male anatomy!

The Shoneye Twins!

The relaxed Shoneye twins in truth are proud public bare practitioners! They’re Nigerians living in London (King Charles III and the Commonwealth) they’re both same gender loving and they’re both committed naturists/nudists! They could care less who looks at their identical genitalia! The result? The chain of command demand has minimal impact on either one of them! Eliminate the Poladopoulos twins from that consideration, too! Alex and I are also bare practitioners so identical twins are immune to the chain of command demand on the broad encompassing underwear issue.

Obviously, those persons who normally do wear undergarments are affected by the CoCD (chain of command demand) but a problem remains to be solved. If everyone is wearing pants or shorts, how can we determine if they’re following orders? If all of us are compelled to wear no underwear, then obeying the demand makes all of us body and clothes free! How can the disobedient be identified and punished?

If the failure to adhere to the law (no underwear) is the actual wearing of underwear, then how do we enforce the law? Force people to wear underwear? Isn’t that how they got into trouble initially? Ignoring the no underwear restriction? So what becomes the appropriate justifiable punishment? This can easily become and endless and repetitive cycle of events!

Commando profile: Buttocks-to-Buttocks!

Every culture has at least one “origin of underwear” legend/myth//story/tale that offers the reason for the need for underwear. Most cultures have multiple explanations as to the absolute necessity for what we now know as undergarments. Legends and myths merge with historic reality that provide us with the cause of this fashion tradition.

In all fairness, not everyone recognized the actual need for underwear. For example, in ancient Rome, no one wore boxers or briefs under their togas! That alone would have made the wearing of a toga ridiculous! In Scotland, even to this day, undergarments (no matter what style) is not permitted to be worn under a kilt! Otherwise, men would abandon the kilt altogether and cover themselves with long pants!

Kilted duo!

Therefore, in gratitude to togas and kilts and all other forms of men’s fashion that are not underwear compatible, the commando custom/habit/tradition evolved into being. The preference for the wearing of a male garment (pants, shorts, shirt, etc.) without underwear appeared – or, the the case of underwear itself – disappeared!

The wearing of underwear became optional. It was no longer considered an essential item of clothing for the “best dressed!” Now, the choice was individual by nature and could be arbitrary – underwear during the day, none during the night or vice versa.

Becoming commando!

A Personal Experience:

Alex, my identical twin brother, is 74 minutes older than me. When we reached Level 4 in primary school, we were sent to the Virginia School for the Deaf and Blind (VSDB) in Staunton, Virginia, as residential students (dormitory living). It was during our second semester there (Spring) that we both learned on commando (underwear free) living. Twin (shrewd Alex) devised a way to observe the lifestyle and avoid discovery. He took scissors and cut of all of his boxer shorts below the waistband!

Every morning, while donning our required uniform, he dutifully wore the waistband only. Instant boxer freedom!

Miraculously commando! Now, when our teacher required us to line-up for “underwear inspection,” all he had to do was show his waistband! Excellent opportunity for several weeks until one of our classmates confessed to our teacher. From that moment on, we all had to unleash our belts and pull our pants down to our knees!

A foiled fowl play!

Dominic Santos (left) demonstrates a commando benefit!

Educational Demonstration: Adorning Jeans: Commando Style:

Align jeans top with legs!
Step into jeans, one at a time!
Mount jeans up to waist!

Naked hugs!

Roger Poladopoulos/ReNude Pride

Author’s Note: The next post entry here is planned for Monday, March 31, 2025, and the proposed topic is: “Bottoms-Up! March, 2025!”

Autumn Twist!

The Twister game being played in a park!

Background:

Before I create any confusion and/or misunderstanding, this post entry for ReNude Pride is most definitely not a cocktail (mixed drink) recipe. The “twist” in the title above is involved in a popular social game – actual title “Twister” – so there is no twist of a citrus fruit necessary to be added to alcohol!

The Game:

Twister is not a convenient board game that is undertaken while seated at a table. It is an active challenge requiring minimal equipment: a chart that is unfolded on the floor or ground and a spin device that denotes particular colours (either red, blue, green or yellow). A spin of the device indicates the colour that the players must physically connect with using either their hands and/or feet.

Originally geared primarily for children, the activity soon became popular with young adults. As the number of clothes free enthusiasts grew, so did the “fun-to-play-naked” fans. The close proximity of the audience and the curious and sometimes compromising positions the players endured added to the excitement of involvement in the game of Twister! Among the bare and same gender loving population, the Twister engagement was astronomical!

As the game progresses, bodies – while nude – often become entangled which provides interesting and unusual encounters with the bodies of others, either a close friend, a casual acquaintance or a complete stranger! A very roundabout way to “break-the-ice” (introduce) oneself to others in a fun and non-threatening (uncomfortable) manner! The results can create lasting friendships or episodes of awkward familiarity!

The fun entailed with Twister is best experienced rather than explained! There are indeed some things that words just are unable to describe! Fortunately, the activity is suitable for play both inside a dwelling or outside in nature as a bare practitioner or clothed.

A pair of identical twins!

If and when a pair of identical twins are entered into the Twister situation, the contortions as well as the game itself can occasionally create unexpected consequences! For two devious minds, in particular, my spouse, Aaron, and my identical sibling, Alex, the opportunity is simply too rich to ignore!

The Devious Duo: Aaron and Alex

The situation that I am referencing took place back in 2010, the year that Aaron and I initiated our relationship. We had met one another that Spring and by that Autumn we were introducing ourselves to acquaintances, family and friends – a somewhat lengthy and involved process that is, at times, very time consuming!

Aaron’s oldest brother, Paul, was undergoing the “coming out” stage of his life and uncertain as to his status, whether he was a bisexual man or a gay man. Aaron and Alex had the idea that the four of us spend a weekend together, especially as I had never before met Paul. The details were arranged by the “devious duo” (Aaron and Alex), the date arrived – early October – and the weekend was underway!

Paul, aware of his attraction to men, remained in limbo (confused) as to whether he is a gay man (male attraction only) or if he is a bisexual man (attracted to both men and women). Aaron and Alex adopted the idea of a weekend “exploratory” gathering in order to provide Paul the chance to determine his status in the SGL world. I thought this a nice gesture and was honestly surprised that they conceived of this idea! Neither one of them were quite that perceptive!

Confused!

Aaron had invited me to his family over the winter holidays – our first together – so I was eager to meet Paul. We had exchanged emails, and I believed that as this was a crucial time in his life, I could offer advice and help in any way possible. I imagined it would allow us to build a bonding together.

I also knew that Aaron and Alex were conspiring some sort of “initiation” for Paul into the “world of twins!” They were both insisting on my collaboration, but I was adamantly refusing to be a co-conspirator in this episode. Aaron had already let Twin and I know that Paul’s American Sign Language (ASL) skills were not as advanced as his plus his confusion over his sexual identity and if that wasn’t enough, he was spending a weekend with identical twins! Give the man some breathing room! No type of “initiation” required!

The “devious duo” despicable plan was to create confusion for Paul involving Alex and I and our identical buttocks! They thought it would be funny, innocent and engage Paul through humour! I appreciated the humourous aspect but remained firmly opposed to any complicity in their conspiracy! My intention was to meet and assist Paul, not to embarrass him! I knew for a fact that Twin (Alex) could manage that reality solo!

Identical twin buttocks!

Just prior to our weekend gathering, Paul sent to me a confidential email and asking my help. Before this planned gathering, we’d exchanged emails but never met. He had overheard two of his sisters gossiping about our approaching weekend. They had shared that Aaron (their brother), and my Twin were planning a surprise episode and that I had declined to be involved. This prompted his request for my assistance.

My response to his message was a negative. I had refused to cooperate with our brothers in their plot to embarrass him (Paul), therefore, I couldn’t, in clear conscious, collaborate in his scheme. I did assure him that I had not violated Aaron and Twin’s trust in me and that I would respect his need for confidentiality.

Realizing that I now had two conspiring forces vying for my attention, I knew that I needed to proceed with care and caution. The planned weekend arrived. Aaron and I had readied our apartment for our guests, my brother Alex and his brother, Paul.

Twister game competition!

Being aware of the probability of some sort of competitive contest between Paul and Aaron and Alex, I reached a decision to try to avoid any resentment and/or conflict. I knew that we planned our meals out in local restaurants which limited our time together to basically Saturday afternoon/early evening and then again early Sunday afternoon. Not too much “free” time but enough for a possible problem to occur.

If there’s one lesson that I remember from my undergraduate education, it is to plan ahead to keep the students busy and involved. No matter what age or level of education, this lesson is applicable to almost everyone. To ease my self-appointed role as “peace-maker,” I had a Twister game available so that we would have an introductory game and then had a secondary activity, body painting, in place so that we could engage either separately or combine them both together. If we needed a third, I figured we could use charades. A last resort was our selection of dvds.

If we needed the dvd option, then I concluded that the entire weekend was a failure and let everyone fend for themselves! We were all supposed to be adults!

The weekend was fun and successful! Twister was a dynamic twist for all! Body painting was postponed until Halloween!

Naked hugs!

Roger Poladopoulos/ReNude Pride

Author’s Note: The next post entry here is planned for Monday, November 18, 2024, and the proposed topic is: “Through the Eyes of Another!”